Welcome to your Sensual Revolution

Hi, I'm Xine La Fontaine

A Conscious Sexuality & Empowerment Coach, Desire Guide and FireStarter : )


I believe, within the depths of my heart, that each and every one of us has an important role to play in healing OURSELVES, so that we may become a driving force in the true healing and soulful evolution of our world.

Xine La Fontaine

How did I get here?

About 6 years ago, my husband of 15 years and I made a bold overseas move from Canada to France, with our two kids in tow, a huge debt and wild adventurous hearts.

Not long after, I became very unhappy and this experience showcased to me how much of myself, of my power, I had unknowingly GIVEN AWAY, in an effort to keep things "going" as they were in my relationship. I had lost  my sense of individuality, my own passions, the connection to my body, and sexuality. My level of sexual desire was completely void and I had pretty much resigned to this being the new normal.

The experimental phase...

We opened up our marriage, awkwardly, and lived in separate apartments. Looking back, there are aspects of this that I would definitely do differently, and more respectfully, yet this is when the magic happened. The second apartment became our self exploration week. We took time for US, as individuals. Healed, learned, explored, made mistakes... all of it! It was fun, it was at times excruciating and it was an absolutely necessary learning experience on how to delve into our SELVES in body, energy and spirit. I started to find my "spark" again, but there was still something missing.

Learning Tantric and Coaching tools that ignite the fuel for our soul's aliveness.

Jade Egg Desire Coach

During my solo exploration, I made the conscious decision to become a profound source of healing for others... and within my search, I discovered that to bring a depth of healing to others, we need to have profoundly healed ourselves! Especially when it comes to sexuality. 

I learned from a variety of coaches, faced my fears of being alone, followed my heart and calling into the jungles and mountains of Peru to do medicine work, hosted some women's retreats in Hawaii and British Columbia, participated in a Shamanic Apprenticeship where I learned how to offer Soul Retrievals, did some Reiki trainings, and now...

My heart and soul are ignited and filled with wonder as I step into one of the most important roles of my life: 
Becoming a driving force in Empowerment, Sexual healing, expansion and ecstacy!!!
To help men, women AND couples find their juiciness, aliveness and Power again. And I have my ongoing Tantric Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching Certification with Layla Martin to thank for it.

It is in these Tantric Coaching methodologies, that I found wholeness.

Desire Coach Martin and Xine

My body and soul are ALIVE and awakening more and more, everyday.

Now... Does this mean I never have a shitty day and we never have doubts or fights in our relationship anymore? HELL no!

But you know what is different now? I have tools and I use them. Tools that allow me to be compassionate with my own and my partner's process. Highly-effective tools that were created out of traditional practices and applied using the latest research in how our body, nervous system and brain work. It's utterly fascinating, and effective.

I am WHOLE, as an individual, outside of my relationships.

And this is so key to deeply connecting with others without all of chaos of unachievable expectations, unconscious neediness and challenging levels attachment. Caring and having deep compassion for OURSELVES, teaches us how to love ourselves. And this, in turn, teaches us how to love and TRULY feel compassion for those we are in  relationship with.

How has this worked out for us? We are debt-free. Our family is well, and we are now living on a sub-tropical island in Spain. A dream life, unfolding day by day.

And I can't WAIT to share these tools with you!

When the time comes, you'll know it. Reading the above will have sent shivers through your whole body and there will be a sense of excitement that HOLY POOP! This is possible!!! Yes, it is possible. You can feel alive, ignited, ecstatic and whole in your body, your career, your relationship and your life, and all of this is already inside you, simply waiting to receive your loving attention.

Fill out the First Contact Form below and let's chat!

As I write this, I have a few 6 and 12-session spots that have opened in Sexuality & Empowerment Coaching, Jade Egg, Tantric Sex for Solo as well as Tantric Sex for Couples (almost sold out!). These are limited spots available to begin soon and in early 2019 as a part of my requirements for the Coaching Certification. Although I have already been (very successfully) coaching individuals in Sexuality and Empowerment (and oh man, do I LOVE this work wholeheartedly), you receive a special price for these pre-Certified spots. Don't wait to embark in this transformative experience if it's feeling like a big YES! It's the perfect opportunity and I would be thrilled to share all of this with you. 

You and me.
1:1 (or 1:2!) sessions online from anywhere in the world.
12 sessions over 4 months = your life changes, forever.

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I participated in a cycle of sessions based on the Chakras; sessions that were rich in the Senses and great to experience, due to the variety of tools. I received a mix of tools such as Reiki Sessions, Chi Gong exercises, yoga, visualizations, and even rituals.

Christine makes it a point to ensure that we leave with the ability to apply the learned tools on our own at home, which brings in great opportunity for growth during our series of sessions together, while adapting to the client's individual needs as they show up.

I was well-guided and thank her for her availability and clarifying responses. These sessions are truly lived out as a journey, and I recommend taking this journey in Christine's company.

I experienced personal transformations, learned to understand myself with more clarity, moved through paths that had initially felt blocked and how to better know how to circulate this energy! During this time, my relationships evolved, I created ties with new friends and acquaintances. I saw changes in my overall chosen activities and even on a professional level. Two new interviews, a new contract, and I have begun devoting my time in a new association. Living out these shifts was not easy, but it felt as though the path simply lit up as I moved forward in my expansion, giving me so many more possibilities to choose from! (translated from French)

~ Audrey

If you have any questions around how you might embark on your personal journey to feeling Soulfully Alive and Ignited, contact me below and let's chat!

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